Did your partner tell you to go to therapy?

Reuben Houser Counseling for Men St. Paul Minnesota

Welcome, you are in the right place.

Therapy for Men

& Conflict-Avoidant Individuals

Become an EQUAL PARTNER in
your relationship.

In-person and online appointments available

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THE PROBLEM

Can you relate?

Which of these have you HEARD:

“You are not emotionally available.”
“Don’t try to fix it. Just listen.”
“ You just give one word answers. Do you have anything else to say?”
“I don’t feel like a priority.”
“You need to learn how to handle your stress.”
“Do you even listen when I talk?”
“I don’t feel like we are partners.”
“I don’t want to start/continue couples counseling until you work on yourself.”

Which of these have you DONE:

Get angry and either explode or shutdown.
Have your mind go blank in the middle of a conversation.
Walk on eggshells at home, afraid to say or do something wrong.
Be quiet hoping your partner will quit talking and forget why they were mad in the first place.
Feel confused about why your partner is this upset about something so small.
Suggest couples counseling only to be told your issues are part of the problem.

If you have experienced any of the above, you are not alone.

The emotional intelligence gap in marriages
has grown from a small crack to a giant chasm, leaving one partner feeling alone and the other confused.

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Individual therapy can help your relationship.

Black and white hands forming a heart representing how therapy can help save your marriage

Fun. Sex. Dates. Laughter.
Enjoying the company of the person you love.

You can have that again.
But first, you have some work to do.
It’s okay. Everyone needs to work on themselves at some point.

You can learn the self-reflection and communication skills needed to have a successful relationship.
You just need to be willing.

And after having the same fight over and over, I imagine you are very willing to learn, grow and
save your relationship.

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HOW CAN I SUPPORT YOU?

SERVICES

IN-Person Therapy

Come to the Mac-Groveland neighborhood of St. Paul, Minnesota.

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Virtual Therapy

Online appointments make it easy to receive quality therapy.

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THERAPIST

COUNSELOR

EDUCATOR

MEET REUBEN HOUSER, MS LPCC

In my 10 years of clinical experience, this is what I've seen:

No one is inherently good or bad at relationships.
There are people who have learned and those that have not.

I can teach you how to:

Stop getting so angry and shutting down
Listen to your partner’s needs without feeling like everything is your fault
Communicate what you want without blaming or backtracking
Create moments of affection daily and feel truly connected to your partner

Let’s go.

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